I'm not looking to get married, and I'm not interested in raising kids. I'm just looking for women to share my life with. Most likely you came here from my home page, so you most likely already know a bit about me and whether I interest you or not, and that I'm poly (in principle, that is - I've only had one real girlfriend and a couple near-misses so far, and am currently flying solo). This obviously means that if you're monogomy-minded in search of a husband and father for your kids, I'm most likely not your man....
I seem to have been born without the jealously gene; as far as I can tell I'm incapable of feeling jealousy at all. So I don't care if you have a husband or other boyfriends or girlfriends, in fact, I'd prefer it if you did - provided you're careful to remain STD-free, of course. But it is essential that you also be pretty much jealousy-free.
You don't have to look like Liv Tyler, either, although of course that would help! While I have the normal male fascination with younger women, I'm open to anyone up to about mid-40s who's reasonably okay-looking. I don't mind if you're a *little* overweight, as long as you're not fat - I'm sorry, looks shouldn't matter, but the truth is they do. That's something I can't help. Other than that I'm pretty open. I almost hesitate to mention my preferences because they're not all that important. But they are pluses, so to speak. I have a preference for brunettes, the darker the better. I like black, blue, and brown eyes. I prefer women who are very nearly my height, 6'0". I like slender-built women with narrow hips. The darker the complexion the better, up to a point. The bigger the breasts, the better, but it's not that important. I like long hair. But don't think for a second that if you're a 5'1" blonde with pale skin, green eyes, small breasts, wide hips and short hair that I won't be interested! As I said, these preferences are slight.
What's most important is personality - you must have a good sense of humor and a generally kind and pleasant spirit. You should be open and honest, and being a little adventurist doesn't hurt! You should be able to take the lead in advancing the relationship and initiating sex (assuming we hit it off, of course), because I'm not! I'm open to trying just about anything (except I don't think I could be a dom - I can take it, but I can't dish it out!), so you need not worry about sharing any fantasies with me, even if you think they're bizarre or perverted. After all, some of mine are....well, nevermind! We'll save that for later. But anyway, while I may or may not be able to get into them with you, I certainly won't think anything bad about you whatever they are.
Well, if you're actually still reading this, maybe you're still interested (I assume that's why you visited this page)? If so, take the plunge - send me mail: kmurcray@du.edu. Go ahead, tell me about yourself - hey, you already know a lot about me, it's only fair, you know! Pictures would be nice, too.
